When the Lord puts a man and woman together do not try and manipulate and change what the Lord orchestrated. What God joins together let no man separate. A man must leave his father and mother and cleave closely to his wife. The two will become one flesh. What God joins together let no man separate. God has reasons for His plans and purposes. He instructs us to listen and obey. His will not ours be done. He joins a husband and wife for His purposes. Listen to His voice and not anyone else.